05/06/2024 | Press release | Distributed by Public on 05/06/2024 08:29
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Summertime is often seen as a time for teenagers to relax and have fun, but boredom and lack of motivation can also set in. As a result, teens may find themselves feeling restless and uninspired.
Connecticut Children's mental health expert Preeti Sandhu, PsyD, shares 6 ways to keep your teenager motivated during the summer months.
Ask your teen what they want to achieve over the summer, whether it's learning a new skill, reading a certain number of books, or volunteering for a cause they care about.
Why?
Setting goals will give them something to work towards and help them stay focused. A win-win for them and for you.
What to do:
Even though school is out, structure is still important for your teen to stay on track and avoid boredom.
Why?
What to do:
One of the best ways to keep your teen motivated is to get them involved in activities they enjoy. This could include sports, music, art, CPR classes, or volunteering.
Why?
Activities will help them stay active and engaged, and they'll also make new friends and learn new skills.
What to do:
If they are of legal working age, a part-time summer job is a great idea!
Why?
It can go a long way in teaching teens time management and the importance of financial responsibility.
What to do:
• Check out this list of permitted occupations for teens, from the Connecticut State Department website. If you teen isn't legal working age, have them consider local volunteering opportunities.
• Ask your teen's school for resources to help keep students active in the summer as well as local government organizations.
• Go to your town's website and see how your community is keeping teens engaged.
If your teen has a particular interest, such as playing the guitar, harvesting a garden, or writing poetry, encourage them to pursue it.
Why?
Summer means less academic pressure, so they can spend the time finding mentors and peers with similar interests.
What to do:
Avoid being critical or negative about their interests, as this will only discourage them.
Keep the dialogue open. Talk to them about their goals, interests, and concerns. Let them know that you're there for them and that you support them. Ask them if they learned something new today.
When your teen meets a goal they set out for themselves, celebrate! This type of positive reinforcement will help them stay motivated and encouraged to continue working towards their goals, all summer long and well into the school year.
Keeping teenagers motivated during the summer can be a challenge, but it's important to remember that they're still growing and learning. Parents, you play a role in helping them make the most of their summer vacation.
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Preeti Sandhu, PsyD, Assistant Professor of Pediatrics, University of Connecticut School of Medicine